The Big Day: GRADUTION(S)

 I didn’t walk across that stage just for me. I did it for every late-night phone call, every home-cooked meal waiting for me after exams, every quiet prayer whispered when things got tough. Graduation day was my victory but their joy. My family is my biggest motivation. 

School: Marion High School

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The Road to Graduation:

There were so many moments along the way when I questioned if I could really do this. The long nights, the early mornings, the assignments that felt impossible, the exams that drained everything out of me it was a journey full of doubt and pressure. But through it all, my family never wavered.

They were my constant.

When I felt like quitting, I’d get a call from my mom just checking in. She always seemed to know when I needed to hear her voice. My dad didn’t say much, but his pride showed in the way he never missed a chance to remind me why I started. My siblings kept me grounded cracking jokes, hyping me up, reminding me that I was never alone in this.

They carried me through the moments I couldn’t carry myself.

This degree might have my name on it, but it was built with their love, patience, and belief in me  even when I struggled to believe in myself.

The Big Day: Lessons from Life and Family

It means a lot to have a strong family support system throughout life. Dealing with life, you’re going to have bad days just as much as you have good ones. Every time I had a "bad day," my family was there to uplift me they made sure I stayed in the game and didn’t give up.

School is not for the weak. Only the strong survive. I thank God for everything all of my blessings, and even all of my shortcomings. Because without failure, there is no success.

Life is really a boxing match. And no matter how many times it knocks you down, you have to find a way to get back up. That’s what life taught me  and that’s what my family taught me, too. They’ve given me strength, wisdom, and support that no book could ever provide.

To say that I’m in college now, and scheduled to graduate in May of 2026… that means everything. This journey hasn’t been easy, but I’ve never walked it alone.

The Ceremony: A Tribute to Their Sacrifice

Walking into the ceremony, I wasn’t just thinking about the diploma I was about to receive  I was thinking about everything my family gave up so I could be there.

I thought about the countless times my parents worked late shifts, missing family dinners, just so they could afford tuition and books. I remembered the sacrifices my siblings made too, quietly taking on extra responsibilities at home, so I could focus on school without added stress. There were sacrifices that didn’t come with a price tag the missed birthdays, the canceled plans, the late nights waiting up just to check if I was okay.

When my name was called, and I walked across that stage, every step was a tribute to their hard work and love. This moment wasn’t just mine it belonged to them, the ones who gave so much so I could have a chance to succeed.

Seeing their faces in the crowd  eyes shining with pride and maybe a few tears  reminded me that this degree was more than paper. It was proof that their sacrifices were not in vain.

Shortly after High School Graduation I had to make a important decision to where I was going to call the University I attend my next "HOME". I attended St. Andrews University. St. Andrews University is a small private Presbyterian University located in Laurinburg, North Carolina. Unfortunately, the University recently was shut down this past year.

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This picture was taken after my football game. I scored my first college career touchdown that day! I was so excited and it was only the beginning for me. Seems like my family was more excited than myself. We went out to eat after the game and the whole time of us being together we'll were talking about the game. And that showed me how much my success meant to them.

Again, my family is my biggest motivation! They seen my ups and down but also kept my grounded through-out my years in college. No matter what the problem is I know that I can always count on my family to back me up. 

Reflection: What The Big Day Really Means

Looking back, graduation wasn’t just about crossing a stage or receiving a diploma  it was about honoring the people who believed in me when I doubted myself. It was about showing my family that their sacrifices, prayers, and endless support made all the difference.

This journey taught me that success isn’t a solo achievement. It’s a shared victory, built on love, perseverance, and the strength we draw from those who stand beside us.

To anyone reading this who’s working hard for their own “big day,” remember this: it’s okay to lean on your people, to let their faith carry you through tough times. Because when that day comes, the smiles on their faces will be the greatest reward of all.

And for me? This big day is just the beginning. I carry their pride and love with me every step of the way and I can’t wait to see where we go next. 

            TOGETHER WE STAND STRONG!